Wives

When one finds a worthy wife, her value is far beyond pearls.
Her husband, entrusting his heart to her, has an unfailing prize.
She brings good, and not evil, all the days of her life.

She obtains wool and flax and makes cloth with skillful hands.
Like merchant ships, she secures her provisions from afar.
She rises while it is still night, and distributes food to her household.

She picks out a field to purchase; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She is girt about with strength, and sturdy are her arms.
She enjoys the success of her dealings; at night her lamp is undimmed.

She puts her hands to the distaff, and her fingers ply the spindle.
She reaches out her hands to the poor, and extends her arms to the needy.
She fears not the snow for her household; all her charges are doubly clothed.

She makes her own coverlets; fine linen and purple are her clothing.
Her husband is prominent at the city gates as he sits with the elders of the land.
She makes garments and sells them, and stocks the merchants with belts.

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs at the days to come.
She opens her mouth in wisdom, and on her tongue is kindly counsel.
She watches the conduct of her household, and eats not her food in idleness.

Her children rise up and praise her; her husband, too, extols her.
"Many are the women of proven worth, but you have excelled them all."
Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting; praise the woman who fears the Lord.
Give her a reward of her labors, and let her works praise her at the city gates.
-Proverbs 31:10-31

Although she is not one of my official followers, I understand my wife does read this daily, so hopefully that will mean some brownie points for me. This was the biblical reading from the office of the readings that I opened to today. Some of the specifics differ from those described above, but I can see the essence of everything said of the perfect wife in her. Not everyone is called to marriage, of course, but I hope that those that are give their spouse the appreciation they deserve today and everyday, and that everyone show that same level of appreciation for their parents (and in-laws) as well.